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I've never been married but I lived with a girl for a couple years who was aware of my bondage fetish.
In fact, the reason we get together was that she was into the same stuff, although not nearly to the same degree.
I know that would require that you actually read and comprehend at the same time to get that, so it's understandable that this point was completely missed by you.
Howie There's some pretty compelling evidence that the tendency toward "twists" in our most personal selves from anxiety or anger to gimp-hood, are inborn as a result of experiences shared in-womb with our mothers and the process of getting out into the outside world.
Howie The line in my post about being sick of the subject matter is a direct quote from bleumune's post, which I directly attribute to him, and his post is only 1 post removed from mine.
So me saying that isn't a statement that I will no longer engage with the subject, but rather a reflection of what other people on the board are saying about it.
What you can't do in real life you can enjoy, vicariously, though the actions of the villain in whatever media you are consuming.
Thus, your metaphor for dragging her by the hair and forcing yourself upon her is an appealing scenario.
Women are mysterious creatures, and when you're growing up and getting your hormones, they are pretty much all you think about.
The desire to somehow control her, either through stories, videos and movies, can be an outlet for them.
The Initiative's other activities included: a research study on Catholics and marriage; ; an analysis of diocesan marriage preparation policies; and dialogues with social scientists and theologians.