They will have other friends and you will eventually end up meeting people." —ameliag4a2dd527b "Ask fun questions about their likes and interests. " —William Gallagher, Facebook "When you're talking to someone you think you could be interested in, remember that you're looking to see if you are interested in them, not if they are interested in you.Once I thought of it that way, I was a lot less anxious and worried about being likable." —mrctheamazing "As an introvert, you will never find 'the one' if you think that is defined by instantly feeling comfortable with someone.First dates are never comfortable and especially not for us.
I could feel the sincerity, so I let him get to know me. Five years later, I'm so glad that I let him get to know me." —kaleyn "My fiancé is the extrovert and I am the introvert.
We share many hobbies that can be either extroverted or introverted depending on the setup, such as hunting and fishing." —Jessica Lee Warfel, Facebook "Be with someone who does not feel that silence is awkward, uncomfortable, or bad news for a relationship.
Introverts are some of the most misunderstood people on the planet. Though this isn’t the case for all introverted women, as a group, we can be more susceptible to lower self-esteem, due to lack of acceptance of our personality type and the ideal female partner often being portrayed in popular media as sexy, bold and talkative.
And since men can find women incomprehensible, female introverts are doubly misunderstood. We want men who think of us as mysterious and fascinating and always want to know what we’re thinking. After all, if you think back to school, weren’t all the popular girls loud and brassy?
So, to enlighten people on this topic, I present you a list of what introverted women are attracted to: 1. We may be quiet but we have a lot of thoughts whizzing around in our minds. As a result, we would like some validation and be shown that we are loved for who we are. Introverted women like men who don’t pressure them to socialize. You shouldn’t be dating an introvert if you don’t understand what introversion is. Introverted women like talking about deep and meaningful topics.
And if you’re lucky enough to have an introverted woman divulge her deepest thoughts, you better pay attention. Don’t be one of those men who force their girlfriend/wife to hang out with people when they don’t want to. If you’re one of those guys who like casual chit-chat and not thinking too much about life and all that – do you know what I mean? Reading is one of the most solitary human activities. It would be nice if you read too, so we could be book buddies and have something so close to our heart in common with you.
I do things I'm passionate about so I'm speaking about what I really care about and it's not just meaningless conversations.
My boyfriend and I often go to the Supreme Court or embassies." —kelseykw "For me, I've found it much easier to date other introverts!
"I prefer to go to a place I knew or had been to before.
It made me more comfortable knowing the area, what kind of food there was, etc., so I could focus on the person and talking to them rather than the atmosphere or what I would order." —Stephanie Combs, Facebook "Go to events your more extroverted friends invite you to.
Introversion can be misread as a lack of interest to some people, so it's always better to say 'I'm an introvert' than to let them think you aren't enjoying their company." —Emily Weeden, Facebook "Become friends with people.